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why so hard 21-12-2012
Why is it so hard for someone to just say "no thanks"
It seems to me that most people in general like to avoid confrontation
and would just rather ignore a person then to respond.
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How do you politely say NO? 19-12-2012
Just because I'm a guy it's assumed I want to sleep
with every woman I see. How do you let someone down gently?
I mean sometimes it's not about straight up attraction
or whatever, it can be about other stuff that's going
on.
I don't want to hurt feelings, but then again I don't
want to go home hating myself either...
Advice?
4 Reacties, 55 Bezichtigingen,
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Nothing said. 19-12-2012
We met with a couple from Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez and had a nice dinner and good
conversation. During the course of the evening, however
I think they realized that neither of us were sexually attracted
each other. We ended the night in a pleasant manner and departed.
We see each other on occasion at a local club and speak and
go our separate way with nothing ever said about swinging
or swapping. So sometime you ...
3 Reacties, 59 Bezichtigingen,
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Does it ever bother you? 10-12-2012
When a girl acts like she wants it, then says no...
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A good friend wanting more... 10-12-2012
I have a great friend who has decided she wants more out of
a relationship lately. I have always known her as my little
sister but having trouble telling her no. Advice?
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Manners.... 25-11-2012
Why do some people not takes a minute to say no thanks if they
arent interested. It's only polite...
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Respect 23-11-2012
Why do some not understand that a simple no means just that...no?
Please people respect is essential if you respect others
you will simply get much further in the lifestyle as well
as in life.
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Breaking one of our rules. 08-11-2012
We met a couple here on Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez and conversed several times on
line. After about two weeks, we agreed to meet at a local
hotel bar, with the intent to get a room if everything worked
out. We got there first and watched them walk in, they were
a very attractive couple. They came over and introduced
themselves and we hit it off very well. We were thinking
this is going to be great until they informed ...
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No Thank You it stings only for a min 29-10-2012
We once had to have the most awkward of "No -Way back
in the beginning, our first encounter actually..before
the internet..so you spent time on the phone getting info
and mental pictures from their descriptions. After a number
of conversations we all agreed to drive half the distance
to the other and meet for coffee.
They had got there first and looking for the car we drove
and as we ...
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mm 27-10-2012
It Be Times When Some One ASk You If You Want This And That
, but it want hurt you to tell them no thanks at times
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Well 19-10-2012
The only time I say no thanks is when they have a little dick.
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seriously people? 12-09-2012
I completely understand that most guys my age are a complete
pain in the ass and would probably make horrible swing partners
but I would really love the common courtesy of a simple thanks
but I/we are not interested.
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at least you replied. 24-08-2012
If I see someone has viewed me, or has flirted with me, I check
for them on the IM. If I do happen to find them there, I like
to shoot them a message asking if they actually did. Most
times they don't even respond, which is much worse
than someone actually taking the time to tell me that they
did, but aren't interested or that they accidentally
clicked on my profile.
It means a lot for ...
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Why? 13-08-2012
I have come to notice that most people on this site are either
to full of them selves to be polite or just don't care.
Personally, being ignored is a personal pet peeve and is
the quickest way to piss me off. When you get a email or IM
from me and take the time to look at my profile even if you
are not interest you could do me the courtesy of saying sorry
not interested vs just deleting ...
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Why are folks afraid to say "not interested", "thanks anyway", etc... 11-08-2012
Having been on here a while now, I have met some cool folks
and exchanged emails here and off the site. What I just don't
get though is the lack of response from members...
I've read and talked with others about how the sites
full of fakes, nobody is real, etc...
Is that the reason for lack of response? Or is it lack of decency
or some feeling of superiority? Something else?? ...
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No thanks is ok but at least answer 06-07-2012
So you send a message and wait and wait..is the person not
interested? Have they read your message? People should
at least say no thanks..my opinion
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One Should Accept No 27-06-2012
I am into swinging life style for last 8 years and over the
years I have met many Couples and women.My experiences
told me that No is a wonderful thing and one should accept
it very gracefully. Not every one I met went forward to have
sex. Many occasions we met and chemistry didn't worked
out so we had our coffee or drink and left.Not many could
take it gracefully and they bitch about you but few ...
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DIFFICULT TO AVOID 30-05-2012
I MYSELF FIND IT DIFFICULT TO SAY THIS WHEN SOMEONE INTIMATES
ME
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being nice 26-05-2012
saying no can be harder than saying yes? right? sometimes
it is just easier to go with the flow and just sleep with a
partner because easier than to say i dont like y64, that's
life, you got to be strong.
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When Did Common Courtesy Go Out the Window? 24-05-2012
I am truly amazed at the rude behavior being exhibited on
Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez these days. It hasn't always been this way. Ten
years ago, people were much more courteous and kind. If
you were not their type, they would politely say so.
Today, someone will message me or I them and once they realize
I'm married or not "perfect", they simply
disconnect without so much as a "sorry, your not my
type" or ...
6 Reacties, 102 Bezichtigingen,
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How do you do it ? 07-05-2012
How do you say "no thanks" to someone without
coming across rude?
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Crazy 06-05-2012
The crazy ex who cant get enough of you
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drugs are bad 03-05-2012
sometimes when I date a girl, she comes up with this stupid
idea to do drugs, weed or white powder. It's really annoying, as if drugs enhance your stamina
or improve your mindset
you just have to say no thanks, bang her and move on...
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We think No means No 22-04-2012
If someone is hesitant in any way shape or form then respect
of their wish is imperative.
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Courtesy is very easy to offer 20-03-2012
We can't account for the behavior of other people but
we can account for our own behavior. Being on an adult sight
doesn't give anyone a license to be a jerk.
There are lots of folks here without photos or any identifying
information which I understand completely but the shame
is that this level of anonymity often leads to very bad behavior...in
other words a lack of general human ...
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Let's try it 11-03-2012
Small cub Friend alway say no ? He saw he wanted only he he had a big dick but he was all total
safe -sez bottom. Good sex ass and friend for me.I says being
a Total Top yes!
Small cub, finding top guys to bend his little ass oversize-ones
with a thanks.
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Hard To Do 10-03-2012
It is difficult to say no thanks. A friend wanted to do the
nasty, but I really was not interested. I flirted with her
before, but never thought she was interested. She made
her feelings known and I had to say no. That's unusual
for a HO like me, but ....
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What is so hard about saying no thanks/what is so hard about accepting no thanks? 08-02-2012
For the ladies
If a guy consistently emails and emails and emails, or tries
to hard in any way, with no established relationship its
easy, Im just not interested, but thank you, its very flattering.
If a guy shows up on a date and he's not your type, it is
uncomfortable, but the fake cell phone call about your
//family member having a fever is way worse
than just saying "I just don't ...
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What's the problem? 01-02-2012
I don't believe a lot of people understand
what the two words 'no thanks' means. How many
times does a person need to say it? ...
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Offended 29-01-2012
WHY do single men, get offended when a couple tells you NO,
even when its posted ALL OVER OUR Fing PAGE?
Morons.
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