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sxyblondedbnaz 61 V
2  Artikelen
Just Say It   27-07-2005

Unfortunately not everyone clicks ... sometimes the chemistry is not there for one or the other. Just be honest and say it. You can do it in a nice way .. something like .. "I think your terrific but the chemistry isn't there" .. some will take it good and some will get nasty. I am considered a MILF because of my age and the way I look, so I get hit on alot by younger guys. Now, I have no ...


8 Reacties, 379 Bezichtigingen, 14 Stemmen ,5.70 Score
funcouple49601 64 S
5  Artikelen
Is there a proper way   24-07-2005

After chatting, meet and greet or whichever way you meet and you don't feel a "connection" but they do....how do you tell him, her or them that it just isn't there?


1 Reacties, 173 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,1.51 Score
rm_ClubFounder 39 M
1  Artikel
Why Gay & Bisexual Men Bug Straight Men   23-07-2005

(1) Your posting your pictures here to view. (2) Because everyone can view your your pictures, many males find them sexy and appealing. (3) You can help what mother nature has given you. (4) A lot of men are wondering if your swingers, from what most of you are saying no not that way (5) This site seems to cater more to straights, ...


0 Reacties, 155 Bezichtigingen, 11 Stemmen ,1.86 Score
rm_A_Z_A 56 V
5  Artikelen
In All Sincerity!   22-07-2005

Please read the person's profile, if possible. You may not fit what they're seeking. Why place a person in the postion of saying no thank you, if you are not what they seek. <br> <br> I am real and have my wants and limitations posted, so if you disregard what I'm seeking, than why should I be obligated to send you a response. <br> <br> But anyway, ...


1 Reacties, 291 Bezichtigingen, 19 Stemmen ,6.29 Score
rm_KptonDaDL 48 M
1  Artikel
Say Something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   22-07-2005

Think back to the time when you went out with your family, friends, school, ECT... you started to look around and you see someone you just could not take your eyes off, so you finally built up the courage to approach that person and have a short conversation. You offer to exchange numbers and the person replies how about you give me your number instead? I will call you the first thing that ...


0 Reacties, 86 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,3.92 Score
men are eager, women are not   21-07-2005

I did a little survey on Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez. I wrote that I was gay and got bombarded by responses from men. Willing to do anything and meet anywhere. Women on the other hand, want to correspond with you. Get to know you. What's up with that? <br> Yes, all men are whores but women act refine and yet want the same things. For men, they get right to the punch line without asking for much in ...


2 Reacties, 135 Bezichtigingen, 7 Stemmen ,1.77 Score
TailGateMom25 43 V
2  Artikelen
To be mean or not to be mean??   18-07-2005

Why don't men understand that when we don't reply...it's because we don't want to be mean!! If we reply and say "Thanks, but no thanks" or "Sorry, not interested", it makes us feel like we are being mean. When we delete your profile and forget it was there, it's just our little way of not even coming close to getting your hopes up at all. I am sorry guys, but i am sick of the reply that ...


5 Reacties, 288 Bezichtigingen, 11 Stemmen ,2.98 Score
TailGateMom25 43 V
2  Artikelen
How do you not seem mean?   18-07-2005

So many of us get on this site everyday to see if we can find what we're looking for. But why is it that the people we send messages to never reply back to us, yet...we don't reply to the people that contact us ourselves?? For me, I still do enjoy getting on here in hopes that i will find that person that fits my needs at this time, but in 10-20 more years, will we still be single and ...


0 Reacties, 99 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,3.01 Score
rm_10plusmore 39 M
1  Artikel
When to say no.   17-07-2005

I have found that is is best to tell the other person things are not going to work out when serious doubts and problems arise. I feel this is the best time, it avoids wasting both of our time.


1 Reacties, 120 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,3.25 Score
kitten1967 56 V
0  Artikelen
which one am I.........   10-07-2005

honestly, I beleive that I am a nice person. So, I am trying to figure out which one I am... a bitch or a .Reason for asking this when I say no to someone on Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez they seem to think I am being nasty to just them. When actually my mate has a say in whom I choose for us.I beleive in his instincts, there for if I do not choose someone it is because Iam being careful not either of the above , ...


0 Reacties, 191 Bezichtigingen, 12 Stemmen ,3.86 Score
arliss007 50 M
3  Artikelen
Is it me or,,   10-07-2005

The people who have profile pics getting fucked are genreally the ones that say "must be D&D free" or "D&D free a must" but they're not using protection!?! What's the deal with that? To that I say, No thanks...


2 Reacties, 129 Bezichtigingen, 6 Stemmen ,3.08 Score
rm_nabber72 52 M
3  Artikelen
pubic hair   10-07-2005

Is there anyone else that is getting tired of completly shaved females? I miss landing strips!! I find it some much sexier to have a small patch of hair to nuzzle my nose against, I'm not opposed to hard wood floors nice for a change for for the every day give me an arrow, heart, love patch whatever you wanna name it! DO find untamed wollies to bit a bit of a turn off. I'm I the only one ...


4 Reacties, 169 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,5.10 Score
rm_nabber72 52 M
3  Artikelen
please be polite   09-07-2005

I relieze that I am the major majority here single male looking for almost anything, but it irkes me when I send someone an email with pic and a little blurb about me and get no response, if your not interested I can handle just say thanx for showing interest but your not what we want, promblem solved.


1 Reacties, 66 Bezichtigingen, 2 Stemmen ,3.81 Score
midnight_lotus 39 V
8  Artikelen
How much is too much?   07-07-2005

Okay ladies, this one is for you. We hear it all the time. We "never" reply to guys emails. But out of all the hundreds we get. How can we afford the time to reply? Not all of us can. But yet some of us auto reply. In an attempt to be even minutly polite. Still some guys just can NOT take a hint. So what do you do in these situations? Do you just put them on ignore, or do you continue to ...


6 Reacties, 422 Bezichtigingen, 16 Stemmen ,4.30 Score
oz chicks are harder   06-07-2005

In my experience in this world it is quite clear to me that it would be harder to get a root from an Australian chick rather from an American chick. With respect to all you lovely American ladies but i think you are more liberated than ours.


0 Reacties, 149 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,2.45 Score
redfish102 62 S
4  Artikelen
Say what you mean!!   01-07-2005

Are there still people out there who know how to say what they mean and be tactful? I have to ask because it seems like most people I have had any contact with in this site say they want to meet but never get back to set anything up. Most of these contacted me first, but as soon as I agree to meet, they disappear. If you change your mind why not just have the courtesy and courage to let the ...


2 Reacties, 95 Bezichtigingen, 10 Stemmen ,5.18 Score
sdgentleman69 50 M
10  Artikelen
After you have met with someone for sex...   01-07-2005

Saying 'No Thanks' after you have already met and had sex is difficult (I think). You don't want to hurt their feelings, but you also don't really ever want to see them again. <br> Maybe they just want to be friends. I just want to meet, fuck, and if it was good do it again and again. But, if it was not good, then I don't want to bother or be bothered by that person again. ...


2 Reacties, 183 Bezichtigingen, 10 Stemmen ,1.59 Score
Yumee6969 38 M
8  Artikelen
NO   30-06-2005

Being a man, when I say no to someone, they listen and dont argue. But it seems that men dont listen when women say no. It is hard to judge a book by its cover, but it is dangerous to open a book with out knowing the contents of the book. Im not saying that people should live thier lives in fear, but they should always have someone with them that they can trust. You might think that you ...


0 Reacties, 70 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,2.47 Score
dynamitesneon 41 M
10  Artikelen
Best way   28-06-2005

How do you tell someone you don't find them sexually attractive without loosing the friend parts? Should I be straightforeward, or what?


1 Reacties, 95 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,4.02 Score
sexycowboy24 39 M
9  Artikelen
Turn Downs   28-06-2005

I have received a few offers from members who i am not attracted to, what is the best way to tell them no thanks?


1 Reacties, 81 Bezichtigingen, 1 Stemmen ,2.40 Score
Top Ten women's replys to Men that cannot comprehend that women are what you seek:   27-06-2005

The Top Ten women's replys to Men that cannot comprehend that women are what you seek are: <br> 10. Thanks for the invite ... however, I am looking for chicks without dicks. <br> 9. I would not let my sniff your ass. <br> 8. What part of NO MEN did you not understand <br> 7. While your tits may be a D cup, you do not have the right equipment below ...


2 Reacties, 361 Bezichtigingen, 35 Stemmen ,2.45 Score
If your not interested then your not interested   27-06-2005

I get a lot of emails and invites almost every day, being the new person I try to be as kind and gentle and honest as I can . keeping in mind others feelings. Ive had to post this reply to quite a few people and I dont feel that I was rude in any way.. <br> " Thank you for taking the time to write me & your interest in me and your nice comments and compliments but I feel I must ...


2 Reacties, 547 Bezichtigingen, 45 Stemmen ,7.76 Score
Be Honest   27-06-2005

If you are not for real and not ready, please say no. Do not make plans and then stand people up. It's very rude and you're not going to make many friends that way.


0 Reacties, 53 Bezichtigingen, 3 Stemmen ,5.39 Score
Be Honest   26-06-2005

We have found that we have had the opportunity to say both yes & no to people. We always make sure we talk about how we feel about the other people. <br> We have met some who have been quite rude and just nose up and left our meeting or simply peeked in the door and left. We think it is only fair to say HI and either yes or no with a bit of explaination.


0 Reacties, 56 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,2.86 Score
madenitaly69 50 M
6  Artikelen
Common Repect   25-06-2005

I seems to be a common trebd that people on here like to waste others time.If you know right off the bat that you may not be interested-let them know.They should get over it.It lets poeple hanging and it's just not a good thing-shoug of put this under rant and raves!


0 Reacties, 38 Bezichtigingen, 4 Stemmen ,2.47 Score
Its ok to Say No   24-06-2005

for all u ppl out there who just find it hard to say no, here is a bit of advice, too many ppl out there mistake common kindness as weakness, And with the corruption taht we are facing today, saying no to something u are iffy about may be a life saver for U in the future........ So ppl ( especially ladies) if ur intuition shows any sign of doubt <br> Then follow the lesson that u ...


0 Reacties, 36 Bezichtigingen, 0 Stemmen
Happycouple619 44 S
1  Artikel
Be truthfull   23-06-2005

I found out the hard way that it is really important to be truthful when swinging. My wife and I experienced our first swinging experience recently. She was uncomfortable with what she saw me doing with the other woman, but she never said anything until we got home. I proceeded to argues with her that she should have said something while we were doing it, but because she didn't I continued ...


3 Reacties, 306 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,1.86 Score
Saying no can be so hard   23-06-2005

We once met a woman that we had been talking to for 4 or 5 months. She showed up at the bar with a dozen yellow roses for me which blew my mind because discreetness was something we had discussed and I had never been with a woman before. It turned out she was not the right one, and I know her feelings were hurt and she did not want to take no for an answer. For months she would change her ...


0 Reacties, 210 Bezichtigingen, 7 Stemmen ,2.53 Score
Saying no nicely   22-06-2005

We are very picky in who we even consider meeting, much less playing with. Does anyone else have a hard time making someone understand that you're not interested in meeting, no means no????????


3 Reacties, 159 Bezichtigingen, 5 Stemmen ,0.86 Score
rm_SweetMonteSS 56 S
5  Artikelen
What do people want really?   22-06-2005

After talking to this couple for a bit they finally sent pics, and unfortunately the wife was hot and the husband not so much...I don't know about anyone else but I have to say that if there isn't any physical attraction then it isn't gonna work...we believe in friendship first but there still has to be some attraction for things to progress further. Anyways, we tried letting the couple ...


1 Reacties, 272 Bezichtigingen, 10 Stemmen ,4.18 Score