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Re: articles mhmmm   21-04-2004

Oh, please. You're on an adult sex personals site. What makes you think that people on here are interested in following scripture to the letter? <br> I'm far more concerned about the appalling lack of correct grammar and spelling among teens than I am about some swear words. <br> And "our "? Your profile says that you're 19. I highly doubt that *you've* raised any ...


0 Reacties, 38 Bezichtigingen, 16 Stemmen ,5.04 Score
when to know   21-04-2004

I know that most women get a lot of emails from tons of guys but when do men know that they are going too far I think that if you email a person and after 5 or so you dont get a response that it is time to move on


0 Reacties, 1 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,4.49 Score
Turning down a request   21-04-2004

Does anyone have a good way of saying forget it to someone that you are not comfortable with besides telling them to F off? Just ignoring is not really nice and I don't want to hurt anyones feelings, but we want to make sure that we have it with the person who we get together with. Any ideas?


0 Reacties, 16 Bezichtigingen, 13 Stemmen ,5.49 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Artikelen
If the other partner isnt interested.   20-04-2004

That person should be polite about it and tell you they arent interested. You should leave it at that. But at least you have a right to know why are they arent interested. That person who isnt interested should at least give you benefit of the doubt first.


0 Reacties, 3 Bezichtigingen, 25 Stemmen ,6.67 Score
Men need to learn when enough is enough   20-04-2004

Its one thing to have a sexual relationship with a third person in a marraige, but it is completely another to cheat on your wife. It is utterly stupid when you have everything you could ever want in a woman and a sexual relationship. A woman to fulfills your fantasies with you. I think it was a mistake to be a good wife, a best friend, totally open and honest with a person who is going to ...


0 Reacties, 26 Bezichtigingen, 30 Stemmen ,1.28 Score
girls this is what you need to know   19-04-2004

Hi if your chating or emailing with someone and then stop without at least emailing it is very hurtfull we guys like to feel wanted same as you. If you decide to break it off then tell us just because there are some assholes out there dosnt mean you cant say goodbuy besides if you read the next email from that person it will tell you what there really like


0 Reacties, 8 Bezichtigingen, 37 Stemmen ,6.96 Score
It's quite simple...   14-04-2004

If you're chatting someone up online and giving it all the charm than expect them to be already expectant of a good time... However if you use your brains and keep a respectful distance/don't cyber and say you want to meet as friends only at first saying "No" shouldn't be a problem


0 Reacties, 12 Bezichtigingen, 16 Stemmen ,2.69 Score
rm_funwithfems 57 V
7  Artikelen
the real reason   13-04-2004

Everyone is wondering why people do not reply saying "no thanks." The main reason is because most people are regular members and cannot send messages. They get one reply a day, and dont want to waste it on a "no thanks." Sure there are plenty of people who can send emails and choose not to, but this is the main reason.


0 Reacties, 15 Bezichtigingen, 16 Stemmen ,5.33 Score
hardone196104 62 M
0  Artikelen
people who send you an email then don't repl to your reply   07-04-2004

this site is about finding people looking for sex is it not. if you just want to talk or date their are lots of site like that online! so women put an add on here to just see how many guys hit on them kind of a ego thing yes guys like the women on here but if you put an ad on here you should be true and reply to those who reply to your ad. and if you send a guy a email saying your ...


0 Reacties, 14 Bezichtigingen, 39 Stemmen ,8.20 Score
SEX   07-04-2004

IM A GUY AND I HAVE A VERY HARD TIME TURNING DOWN SEX. THE ONLY WAY THAT I WOULD TURN DOWN ANY KINDA OF SEX IS IF I CAN SMELL HER STINKEN PUSSY OVER A BARBEQUE GRILL.


0 Reacties, 4 Bezichtigingen, 46 Stemmen
welshy1966 56 M
2  Artikelen
why can't you women just say no thanx.....   06-04-2004

when i have taken the time to read your advert..think about what you've said and then taken the time to respond with a polite response answering any qeustions you have posed ....can't you at least have the decency to reply.even if it's a no thank you! maybe Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez could think of a "no wink" or something.but i know i have been caught out..i waited for a response from one lady...and ...


0 Reacties, 2 Bezichtigingen, 34 Stemmen ,5.49 Score
Why are so many people rude?   06-04-2004

Can someone give me some insight? I add people to my hotlist, I send invitations to join my friends network, I let people know that i have pics in my friends section, I contact people by the email and winks. Out of the 43 people I have taken an interest in only 1 bothered to deny my invite, 3 accepted, and the rest just blow me off. I know they have been online and gotten the invite or ...


0 Reacties, 14 Bezichtigingen, 26 Stemmen ,6.80 Score
grdr9977 47 M
1  Artikel
how to say no thanks   01-04-2004

If someone shows interest in you and you are not interested....Please at least email them back to say so. They did take the time to send you an email afterall. I know everyone on here doesn't always get a response from everybody they email. Doesn't it make you wonder if they even heard from you?? Soo...the next time someone takes the time to show some interest in you but you aren't ...


0 Reacties, 35 Bezichtigingen, 20 Stemmen ,5.17 Score
re: when the picture doesn't match the face   01-04-2004

Well, if you meet someone who sent you a picture of themselves as they appeared more than 4 years ago, and they now look very different (much larger, bald, much older, whatever) you are dealing with someone who is not realistic in their approach to others. Not a liar, just someone who probably in their own mind doesn't realize they have changed that much. It happens. If you're not ...


0 Reacties, 19 Bezichtigingen, 26 Stemmen ,7.34 Score
wondering what you would do?   31-03-2004

We recently received a message from a couple asking if we would like to get together. They were not our type, were not close tour age group, and not to be rude but, they were not attractive to us either. <br> So we responded with: "Although we are not interested, thank you for taking the time to read our profile and sending us your message." <br> The next day we ...


0 Reacties, 6 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,5.56 Score
WHY can't some people understand when you tell them not interested   31-03-2004

We don't understand why some people continue to write and ask the same thing over and over after you tell them politely that you don't think you are compatible, are to far, not what you are looking for...etc.We try to be as polite as we can and some people have written us up to 5 or 6 times.Is anyone else having a problem with this.If so let us know, so that we don't think we are replying ...


0 Reacties, 55 Bezichtigingen, 9 Stemmen ,5.35 Score
Who cares   25-03-2004

You people shouldn't take it so personally when you don't get a response back. If you don't get a response back withing 72 hours, forget that person because they are either not interested in you or something happened that they cannot answer you. Really, it's not that big a deal. Stop wasting your precious time harping on someone who doesn't care what you think/feel or say and move on to ...


0 Reacties, 15 Bezichtigingen, 20 Stemmen ,4.40 Score
kinkycouplesc 56 S
2  Artikelen
Just state the facts.....   24-03-2004

Whne T and i <her> get a mail, or whatever from an unwanted, , married "single" guy , we @ least return a reply. If it even say thanx, but no thanx, or Im not into what your into, its nice to hear something back. Dont leave open air out there, It makes this WHOLE thing pointless for those of us searching for REAL PEOPLE. Remember, a bad reply is better then no reply.


0 Reacties, 3 Bezichtigingen, 8 Stemmen ,6.03 Score
Legz_N_Ass_Man 64 M
1  Artikel
RE: Why can't people learn to take "no" for an answer??   18-03-2004

I can't speak for everyone, but sometimes you read a profile, and everything is a perfect match, but then they say no for no apparent reason. Sometimes you just can't help but wonder why...


0 Reacties, 80 Bezichtigingen, 75 Stemmen ,9.79 Score
Starrblaster41 75 M
7  Artikelen
Why be ignorant?   17-03-2004

I was going through the lsit of people online today, trying to find a feamle who might be interested in some cyber fun to pass the time. It's winter, and many people are on the Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez site just to pass some time and have some fun. I paged a few people in instant messaging, and when someone finally responded, I immediately and very politely asked if they "had a few minutes, " then asked if ...


0 Reacties, 25 Bezichtigingen, 17 Stemmen ,6.52 Score
rm_Jesebelle 46 V
1  Artikel
Read the profile please!   16-03-2004

Is it me or is my profile so very difficult to read? I'm not interested in older men or women. Women or men that are even close to my parents' ages is just a general turn OFF. I'm not trying to be offensive, just honest. So if you read a profile and it has an age limit, respect that. I try to respect everyone on this site, I expect to be respected in return.


0 Reacties, 14 Bezichtigingen, 2 Stemmen ,5.20 Score
That Damn Skunk   15-03-2004

This isn't for the women saying no thanks as it's for the ones who does understand "NO". Now I respect a woman with the courage to say no but some men take it the wrong way and bad shit happens. I've learned our culture has an important role in our upbringing and what comes to my mind is "that damn skunk"! PePe is his name and for years young impressionable minds have watched this ...


0 Reacties, 14 Bezichtigingen, 1 Stemmen ,5.00 Score
Just be honest, but polite   15-03-2004

The best thing to do when saying "No Thanks" is to be honest. Tell the person that you are not interested. Be nice about it, but be honest. You don't have to give a lot of details, just say "Thanks, but you are not interested." If they write back you can always block them. That way you don't get into a back and forth email war.


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bigthunder2002 73 S
4  Artikelen
Enough already   07-03-2004

Enough Already <br> When we ladies are at the swingers clubs and politely say "no thanks" It doesn't mean we are bitches...simply that your not our type...or maybe were just not in the mood. Try not to take it personal!!


0 Reacties, 1 Bezichtigingen, 34 Stemmen ,8.63 Score
Have a little courtesy please!   06-03-2004

Don't you hate it when you wink, get one back, but then never get a response from the other party after senging messages? <br> If all you want is to look at pictures on the profiles, fine. At least let the other parties know that's all you want. If not interested, at least have the courtesy to say "No thanks". No hard feelings, but at least respond. For some of us, this is a ...


0 Reacties, 2 Bezichtigingen, 15 Stemmen ,6.96 Score
Reply to "NO THANKS"   05-03-2004

Fairly new here, but already noticed severe lack of "No Thanks", or any other response to attempted contacts. <br> Common courtesy is a lost art.


0 Reacties, 1 Bezichtigingen, 29 Stemmen ,6.85 Score
have a little common sense   02-03-2004

The main thing I get when a guy contacts me is "call my cell" or "give me your phone number." If I wanted to induce a conversation via phone, I'll call my mother. If you really want us ladies to reply, try actually saying something when you send us messages. I automatically delete anyone who only says "contact me for sex at xxx-xxx-xxxx." This may be an adult meeting site, but it's not a ...


0 Reacties, 5 Bezichtigingen, 51 Stemmen ,8.83 Score
Spring Break 2004, the guest   01-03-2004

(Continued) As the elevator started to move, I noticed that he had noticed my swimsuit sticking out beneath the towel that I had wrapped around it. Smiling at him, I watched as he examined me closer, taking note of my erect nipples and full breasts straining against the slightly wet robe that I had around me. Hearing the elevator ding again, I watched as the door opened behind him. ...


0 Reacties, 76 Bezichtigingen, 30 Stemmen ,6.67 Score
rm_mace107_2003 40 M
6  Artikelen
Sick of lil teens being used.   28-02-2004

Hey i know alot of girls growing up and im only 22 now and i have heard at least 5 or 6 times where they were basiclly by an older guy about my age. I hate that i cant stand it. If a woman says no even in a small faint no.... she deserves the respect for you to back up a minute and talk about whats going on, instead of her. They try and play it off as not but it is. She might say ...


0 Reacties, 20 Bezichtigingen, 43 Stemmen ,7.92 Score
rm_ThkWhytGrl74 49 V
1  Artikel
Did you not read my profile???   27-02-2004

OK let me make this clear...I am not tryin to be rude by stating what type of guy I am interested in. I personally simply choose to date, sleep, or talk to a certain race of men. It doesn't mean I have limited myself. Also, when I say I want dealings with someone my age, I'm sorry if your 30 years older...that's not my fault. Take that up with your mom and dad. I will respond to all ...


1 Reacties, 45 Bezichtigingen, 43 Stemmen ,7.39 Score