Selective but fun...Please read entire profile I am a Married female that is in the lifestyle as a couple with husband of 30 years. No drama as this is strictly about fun... We are not replacing anything and the marriage is excellent......we just like having sex with variety. Not looking for relationship nor clingy guys that want to get involved and text or talk daily as we have a normal family life that is our main priority. this is about no strings FWB sex. Hubby and I share every detail and conversation, there are no secrets, as such we have moved our non AFF communication to KIK setting up a group with us as a couple. I chat with the guys …. He chats with the ladies but the other can see and it keeps us on the same page when plans are made to meet If you are a married male and she doesn't know (or hubby or I can't talk to her) then it's best to click to next profile. Not for me or us to be involved in someone getting emotionally hurt. If you want a relationship then please click next profile. He is my soulmate, we just want the other to have pleasure. We play with other couples under our couples profile on two other sites . On AFF, He has his profile for FFM and this is mine geared for MFM. I am DDF and tested regurly and expect same as I enjoy body contact in playtime. Looking to meet well endowed men if connection then playtime. Most meetings will be with hubby on a MFM playtime and on select occasions, solo but that is after playing , respect level is there ( including hubby) and trust level is established and only with hubby's approval. We communicate on everything so no games or drama. We capture the encounters on pics and video for our and his private enjoyment. It is done from out of line of sight and it doesn't impact our playtime, it is just part of the turn ons for us as a couple. (Video is private.. Hubby does share some non face pics with the guy. Playtime activities are never posted Occasionally I will tend to stay logged on as it's just easier for me on my hit and miss schedule and check the profile thru out the day. If you catch my eye the I wil respond. For gold members , A email is better than chat as if I am busy, AFF chat deletes when you get offline. To answer the consistent question… yes, I do play with men of color. Yes I enjoy men that are thick and well hung. Race is not an issue …. Maturity is . My attraction is more for the well groomed men that are humble ,respectful, not over aggressive type out of the bedroom but that those who can switch to a take control in the bedroom. I will not initiate the specific request for a meeting...I feel that has to come from the guy. The gentleman must be able to host as we have family in our home which eliminates that as an option. Pics will be needed before we meet which means face and body as well as connective communication... You will see me...it's only Fair...just saying....lol. Lets meet tonight or rude messages are a turn off to me..... I prefer demonstration of class and respect and meeting what I am looking for with the timing being right with our schedule. When we plan something, we show up. I am a lady out of the bedroom and a fun girl in it. Respect for me (and as important hubby) and sense of humor are huge turn ons to me. This is for fun and spice in marriage. We are not replacing anything in our marriage.