I’m 51 years old, fit and love a range of activities both cerebral and physical. I am married, and my wife is supportive of my play. We On the physical side I love hiking, running and sailing. I sail mostly in the Caribbean and try to do catamaran charter with friends at least once a year. On the cerebral side, I am a voracious reader. Important books include The Fountainhead, The Book of Five Rings, and Stranger in a Strange Land. Nonfiction like Nothing Like it In the World, The Wild Blue, and various historical biographies. For fun I read lots of science fiction and fantasy. Interestingly, I originally listed some of my favorite authors in this paragraph, but AFF rejected my profile for containing “personal contact information.” This was especially strange as all of the authors I listed were dead... Regarding my marital status: Yes, I am married. Yes, my wife knows about all of my play. Most of my playmates are our good friends. Of course new friends are good too.... Sexually I enjoy all combinations of group play and am very comfortable playing with couples. I also have lots of experience with D/s. Its not an indispensable part of play for me, but I do enjoy it. With regard to D/s play, I enjoy both rope bondage and leather cuffs and collars. I am not into extreme pain or any injury, but enjoy spanking, whips, paddles, and similar devises used carefully. I have a great deal of experience with breath play and pride myself on enjoying it safely. I also enjoy all kinds of domination and power exchange, forced orgasms, orgasm denial and all kinds of sexual control. More than any one fetish, though, I most enjoy sexual intensity with other intense kinky people. The specific play is really more of a vehicle for that dynamic than an ends unto itself. I love all kinds of sex play, but mostly love spending time with smart, intense, kinky women and couples. If that is you, get in touch!

Mijn Ideale Persoon: Kinkiness and intensity are much more important to me than appearance or age. If you re truly uninhibited and have extreme and intense desires, I would love to know more about you.